Every alternate weekends, I sometimes will send my kids to my parents house. They love going to their grandparents houses. That means, some times for me and hubby to spend with Lana or dating day for us.
Every weekend, there must be activities for them. I want them to enjoy their childhood as what Me and Hubby had....a childhood fill with fun and laughter. Days that they will remember :) I think I am doing a great job towards motherhood. Everyday is a proses of learning for me...that way, I become better each day and improve myself in many ways.....aside from discovering something new too.
This weekend, Leah and Leevan are at my parent's house. They will enjoy the Kampung life....Before going to Lola and ahKung's hse...
Me: Leah, you wanna go and visit lola's hse today?
Yaya: Ok, but you must fetch us home ok? I dnt want to sleep in Lola's hse...
Me: Why? Yaya: Mummy, Lola's hse no disney channel...I cnt watch cartoon cause ahkung watch big ppl Tv. Me: Ok, I come later ok? I go out with Lana first...
Yaya: OK..I Love you Mummy...Daddy..
That evening
Me: Yaya, MummyDaddy coming already to fetch you ok?
Yaya: No Mummy, you come tomorrow. I come home tomorrow after you go church with dadddy...Mummy n daddy go church 1st tomorrow.
Me: Yaya don't want to go home? Yaya: I want to spend time with Lola 1st...can Mummy pls?
Me: Ok...I see u tomorrow morning k..We go playground.
The next morning
Me: Yaya, you want to go playground? Yaya: Nope, tomorrow k. I still want to play bah in lola's hse
Me: Ok, you dnt give Lola headache k..Later lola sick later...
Yaya: ok Mummy...I already give Lola headache.... Me: ????? (just my typical Leah)
I am happy that my kids are having fun with their grandparent and having that opportunities to be with them and being cared by their grandparents. My parents are happy to be spending time with them too...How I've wished I had that opportunity but at least my kids are.
In my time, I grow up to know only my popo from my dad side. My ahkung and Lolo past away before I was even born. I've only meet my Lola onces in the Phils just before she past away. Its so sad. Anyhow, I had great time with my popo until she passed away almost 1 years plus ago.....so heart wreaking but We all know that she is in a better place now and watching over us all.
My kids have the privilege of knowing both of their grandparents.....both they manja.....always smiling and many stories to tell Mummy and Daddy....lol.....
My kids sow the better of me and Hubby.... We will sacrifice anything for them. I want them to be close to me and daddy always....always...
I Thank You Lord for the miracles that you've brought upon our family...Guide us always to become good parent and help us in your Grace to shape up our children's future.