This is too embarassing...

Reading this article was a big blow to me...that's why the poor is getting poorer and the rich get richer. I don't actually care about the money but it could help people (rakyat) that needs it. People are straving and working hard to live for necessities and the above people treat the rakyat like rubbish. The money that the RAKYAT work hard for...oh please, gaji pun so ciput for the lower income....don't you people have a heart ???

I took this article just to share. Its so disgusting to know our leaders are doing ...

PKR today revealed evidence that it said shows the government footed the bill for the engagement reception for Prime Minister Najib Abdul Razak's daughter.

Citing a banquet event order from Shangri La Hotel, which catered for the Seri Perdana event, PKR director of strategy Rafizi Ramli said the Prime Minister’s Office was billed RM409,767 for the reception.
"This is not a small matter. It may be just RM409,767, but it signifies the lax attitude of the government, starting from the PM to his cabinet ministers, who use taxpayers' money for the personal luxuries," Rafizi said.
According to the copies of the document provided the media, the event was billed to the Prime Minister's Office was held on June 17, 2011 at the Perdana Putra complex.
Bernama had last year reported that Nooryana Najwa's engagement to Kazakh national Daniar Nazarbayev took place at the PM' Najib Abdul Razak's official residence Seri Perdana, Putrajaya that night.
The document, which names the PM's private secretary Mohd Po'ad Jelani as the main contact person for the booking reveals that it was done under the PMO's office account.
In the billing section, Shangri La noted that the PMO was due to furnish a letter of undertaking by June 15, 2011.
The function was categorised as a 'OCS dinner', and required setting up three days before the event and pre-function drinks for that night.
Rakyat paid for PM's taste
The dinner cost RM522 per head for 36 VIP guests, and RM359.60 per head for 862 other guests, while handling charges reached a whopping RM81,000.
The menu included lobster bisque and wagyu beef, while Shangri La also catered supper for 300 people at RM45++ per head.
"I'm not sure why they didn't use National Feedlot Centre's beef," quipped Rafizi, who is at the forefront of exposes on Cabinet Minister Shahrizat Jalil-linked project.
According to Rafizi, ( left ) Najib needs to come clean on the matter as it is clear that the PMO was used for a private function.
Even if he paid for the event from his own pocket (later), it is still a moral issue as he cannot pay for a private function through the PM's office," he said.
He added that while it is Najib's "personal right to have an expensive taste", it is "nauseating" that taxpayers' money was used to meet it.
"At the same time the PM pays consultants to build an image of himself as someone who eats with the people and lives moderately," he said.
He added that PKR will also raise the matter at the parliamentary sitting next week.
Malaysiakini had contacted Mohd Po'ad but he has not responded as so far.

Did I Marry The Right Person?

Marriage-DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

Those who are still single may learn something from here...

Those who are already married may take it as a guide to improve your marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,’ How do I know if I married the right person?'

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated
their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept of my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies
that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the
euphoria (excitement) of love fades........

It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry
the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of
the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn
to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you
couldn't fall in love with someone
else.

You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a
few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER
just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make'
it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of
love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific
things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your
marriage..

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),
there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise
program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make love'.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.

My kids...

Gosh, how time flies and my kids are growing....leah is in K1 now, leevan and lana still with angel playschool...

Few days before school started, i could had just change my kids sleeping time so that they could wake up early the next day for school day....but no, I was still in the holiday mood and with my hubby/ daddy around...tidak dipedulikan.....

As I expected, I had to force leah to wake up and get ready...she was so cranky but not fussy..bless her for not making mummy stressed out that morning...when to school with her as this mummy did not turned up on registration day last mth on the 28 ;). I have a good reason for it ok. Leah was the flower girl for hubby dear cousin rudy jayasuriya's wedding which happened to be T the same day. Paid school and left the classroom. Leah was comfortBle right away with her new classmates and some old classmates from K2. ( my experience walking through the hall, kids was crying and begging for their parent...kesian o..)

Had bf with dear husband in the school canteen( so murah bah makan in school canteen) and left to fetch the other 2 for playschool...playschool started 1 dAy earlier so it was not a problem for us with leevan and lana. Lana did showed sign that she was going to burst into tears but I guess she had mix feelings and tia jadi this.

Would lve to post their pics but some how, i dnt know how to download from this ipad...well, maybe another time :).

Happy New Year

Its a new year....a new resolution for some and a new beginning for others. A new chapter and a new journey for many....

Hope its not too late to wish everyone a happy :)

I wish everyone the best and may all dreams do come true....for those who have given up will never to lose hope...for those who wish for miracles, it will happen with God' s blessing..for those who are seeking for love will find love...and those who are lost, will find God.

Happy wednesday all.....and a happy new year..xoxo

Beautiful prayer

Prayer That Brings Miracles 
This is one of the
Best prayers
I think I have ever read.miracle or not...but I think its worth reading


IT WILL ONLY TAKE A MINUTE.

I started not to do this, but as I read it....
I understood God to say,
'You need a miracle tomorrow'
so here goes...Prov. 29:25
You never know
When God is going to bless you!!

Good things happen when

You least expect them to!!!!!!!!

"Dear Almighty Lord God Jesus Christ, I thank you for this day, for this is the day that the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it. 

I thank you for my being able to see, and to hear, and to speak, and to feel, and to taste of Your good creation this day and every day.

I'm blessed because you are such a loving and such 
a forgiving God, and such an understanding and caring God.
You have done so much for me and yet you keep on blessing me. 
Forgive me this day for everything
I have ever done, or ever said or ever thought
That was not pleasing to you. I say I am so sorry.
I now repent and ask for your forgiveness.
Please keep me safe O God
From all danger, hurt, and harm.
Help me to start this day and every day
With a new attitude and plenty of gratitude.
Let me make the best of each and every day,
To clear my mind so that I can hear from you.
Please broaden my mind so that I can accept all things. Let me not whine and whimper
Over things I have no control over, for all things are working together for my good and God's Glory.
And when I'm pushed beyond my limits, give me the 
best response, a response which says Alleluia, and 
Praise the Lord, and Thanks be  unto the Most 
High God Almighty, I know that when I can't 
pray, You listen to the prayer of my heart.
Continue to use me to do your will.
Continue to bless me so that I may be
A blessing to others.
Keep me strong so that I may help the weak...
Keep me uplifted so that I may have
Words of encouragement for the discouraged.
I pray for those that are lost and can't find their way, that they come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, even through this Prayer I am now praying.

I pray for those that are misjudged

Misguided, misused, and misunderstood.
I pray for those who don't know you intimately.
I pray for those who will delete this prayer
without sharing the Love of God with others
I pray for those that don't believe.
But I thank You, that I do believe
That God changes people and God changes things. 
I pray for all my sisters and brothers.
For each and every one of the family members
In their households. I pray for peace, love, and joy
in their homes; I pray that they are out of debt
And that all their financial needs are met, and they have more than enough to be a blessing to others.
I pray for every eye that reads and says this Prayer
That they come to know that there is no problem, no circumstance, no situation that is greater than God, for God is greater than all, God is greater in all, God is greater through all, and God is greater upon all. 
For God, the Most High God Almighty of all the Universes is truly the Greatest of All.

I pray for all my enemies, and those who have used me and abused me, and have lifted up their hands and their tongue against me. I now forgive them for all they have done. In Jesus Name, all my enemies are now forgiven, and I pray God forgiveness upon all my enemies, for they do know what they are doing, for I am a Child of God.

So every battle that I have ever encountered in my life is now in God's Loving hands, for You, O God  fights all my battles for me.
I pray that these words be believed, received and accepted
into the hearts of every eye that sees them
and every tongue that confesses them
in name of Jesus Christ, I pray believing, 
receiving and accepting God's miracles in my life this 
day and every day, for God's Divine favor is now my 
heritage, in Jesus Name. Amen and Amen! It is  
done! O' Praise The Lord! Alleluia! 
God Bless You!! ! ! !
Just repeat the phrase below and see how God moves!!

God I so love you and I need you. I confess that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the Living God, my Lord, my Savior, and my King, and I confess this day and every day that I am highly FAVORED by God and man.

Please come into my life, Lord Jesus Christ and change my heart now!
Let's take this Prayer around the World. 
You will receive a miracle tomorrow.
Don't ignore this and God will bless you.
Know that you are already blessed
By the person who sent this to you.

You never know how many people you will bring to the foot of the Cross because of you sending this e-mail out to as many people as possible, and God will say to you 'Well Done'
____________________________
CONCENTRATE ON THIS:

"To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did. When God takes something from your grasp, he's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you. Something good will happen to you today, something that you have been waiting for to hear. Please repeat these 30 Words, " Almighty Jesus Christ, my Everlasting Father, walk through my house and take away all my worries and illnesses, and please watch over and heal my family in Jesus name, Amen". 

Don't stand before God empty handed. Send this out to as many people as possible now, and let this be your ministry unto God who Brings Miracles in your life today and everyday.


 

 

 

 

 

Love to share this with all my fellow friends...God don't always grant our wishes but God knows what is best for us....

Once there were three trees on a hill in the woods. They were discussing their hopes and dreams when the first tree said, 'Someday I hope to be a treasure chest. I could be filled with gold, silver and precious gems. I could be decorated with intricate carving and everyone would see the beauty.'

Then the second tree said, 'Someday I will be a mighty ship. I will take Kings and queens across the waters and sail to the corners of the world. Everyone will feel safe in me because of the strength of my hull.'

Finally the third tree said, 'I want to grow to be the tallest and straightest Tree in the forest. People will see me on top of the hill and look up to my branches, and think of the heavens and God and how close to them I am reaching. I will be the greatest tree of all time and people will always remember me.'

After a few years of praying that their dreams would come true, a group of woodsmen came upon the trees. When one came to the first tree he said, 'This looks like a strong tree, I think I should be able to sell the wood to a carpenter, 'and he began cutting it down. The tree was happy, because he knew that the carpenter would make him into a treasure chest.

At the second tree the woodsman said, 'This looks like a strong tree. I should be able to sell it to the shipyard.' The second tree was happy Because he knew he was on his way to becoming a mighty ship.

When the woodsmen came upon the third tree, the tree was frightened because he knew that if they cut him down his dreams would not come true. One of the woodsmen said, 'I don't need anything special from my tree, I'll take this one,' and he cut it down.

When the first tree arrived at the carpenters, he was made into a feed box for animals. He was then placed in a barn and filled with hay. This was not at all what he had prayed for.

The second tree was cut and made into a small fishing boat. His dreams of being a mighty ship and carrying kings had come to an end.

The third tree was cut into large pieces, and left alone in the dark.

The years went by, and the trees forgot about their dreams.

Then one day, a man and woman came to the barn. She gave birth and they placed the baby in the hay in the feed box that was made from the first tree. The man wished that he could have made a crib for the baby, but this manger would have to do. The tree could feel the importance of this event and knew that it had held the greatest treasure of all time.

Years later, a group of men got in the fishing boat made from the second tree. One of them was tired and went to sleep. While they were out on the water, a great storm arose and the tree didn't think it was strong enough to keep the men safe. The men woke the sleeping man, and He stood and said 'Peace' and the storm stopped. At this time, the tree knew that it had carried the King of Kings in its boat.

Finally, someone came and got the third tree. It was carried through the streets as the people mocked the man who was carrying it. When they came to a stop, the man was nailed to the tree and raised in the air to die at the top of a hill. When Sunday came, the tree came to realize that it was strong enough to stand at the top of the hill and be as close to God as was possible, because Jesus had been crucified on it.

The moral of this story is that when things don't seem to be going your way, always know that God has a plan for you. If you place your trust in Him, God will give you great gifts.

Each of the trees got what they wanted, just not in the way they had imagined.

We don't always know what God's plans are for us. We just know that His Ways are not our ways, but His ways are always best.

Please keep this moving... Pass it on, so God may inspire more people on The Way.

May your day and the New Year be blessed. And until we meet again, may God cradle you in the palm of His hand.

Breakfast at McDonald

Breakfast at McDonald's

This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end! (After the story, there are some very interesting facts!):

I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree.

The last class I had to take was Sociology.

The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with.

Her last project of the term was called, 'Smile.'

The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions..

I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway. So, I thought this would be a piece of cake,

literally.

Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning.

It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then

even my husband did.

I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved..

As I turned around I smelled a horrible 'dirty body' smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men.

As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was 'smiling'

His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance.....

He said, 'Good day' as he counted the few coins he had been clutching..

The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation.

I held my tears as I stood there with them.

The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.

He said, 'Coffee is all Miss' because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.

That is when I noticed all eyes in the

restaurant were set on me, judging

my every action.

I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray..

I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand..

He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, 'Thank you.'

I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, 'I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope.'

I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son... When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, 'That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope..'

We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.

We are not church goers, but we are believers.

That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.

I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand.

I turned in 'my project' and the instructor read it.

Then she looked up at me and said, 'Can I share this?'

I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.

She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my son,the instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student.

I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn:

UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to

LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS -

NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE.

There is an Angel sent to watch over you..

In order for her to work, you must pass this on to the people you want watched over.

An Angel wrote:

Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart

To handle yourself, use your head..

To handle others, use your heart.

God gives every bird it's food, but He does not throw it into its nest.

A box of gold

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

With a secret inside

that has never been told

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

This box is priceless

but as I see

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

The treasure inside is

precious to me

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Today I share this

treasure with thee

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

It's the treasure of

friendship you've

given me.

Decision..decision..decision

After stepping into MARRIEGE life and having CHILDREN, there are so much to think and decision to be made...SAKIT this KEPALA..Lol...

Life is no more about ME anymore..its about my husband and children. Life is not tough but its a challenge. Its no more of me who USED to be a SHopholic. I spend most of my paycheque on shoes and cloths...I USED to LOVE FASHION but now, I have to divert my attention to more important things in life...

Soon, I have to enroll Leah to a kinder...I just can't decide which one and definetely I want the best for my lil girl. The surrounding of the school, the teaching techiques and so on. I never thought its gonna be that hard. I want my Leah to learn chinese and at the same time will boost her confidances among friends around her. I don't want her to HATE school and get lose in the middle. Me and Hubby still have few weeks to go before school kinder registration close.

My son Leevan will stay in Angel playschool which I find to be one of the best decision I made. The results from that school is termendous. Leevan knows few alphabet already and colors too....I will enroll Lana there too next year. The principle can be very helpful. Leah is a briallint girl quote by the teachers but she has one problem which is the PEMALAS penyakit. 1day she can do something so good and fast but sometimes, u have to bug her at all times...

I am already deciding which primary to send...Aiya....who though parenthood can be tough....lol...All the best to me...I know i will make the right the decisions for my children...Just wait and see....

Times flies

Its almost mid of April and soon HELLO month of May soon. Lana will turn 1 yrs old soon....Oh, my lil bongsu baby...she is growing up too fast. In fact, she is heavy for me...cannot carry too long cause sakit tangan but pasal sayang..tahan saja lar.. My Lana is so SUPER DUPER attached to ME...Yay..and nobody can carry her...menangis that terus....She is learning to walk now....soon, pandai jalan....lagi lar susah mau jaga but anything for our lil bongsu..its a process of growing....my lil precious bongsu....She is learning her words now..cant wait for her to say daddy and mummy....She is so sweet and always smiling to US...she loves to be around wth her siblings.She is daring and tia takut punya this..berani ..thats my lil bongsu...funny to see that she can quarell wth her big bro sumtimes...pandai berpukul..lol ...

My lil brother Leevan....he is my lil michevious boy....sweet and sneaky in away.....helpful and like to buang sampah in the rubiish bin...Lol....He is talking in sentences now...slowly...from one word into a sentences....sweet that he is trying to be smart...many cant get enough of him cause his charming...mcn the daddy i guess...but can be so gerigitan cause aou pandai mokinongou.......grrrr..but his my little boy, my little Leevan..now 2 years old and still growing..He likes to mimik the daddy..putting on daddy shoes...wanna ride on the bike and so....just boy stuffs....oh, i dnt know later but now he just loves cooking...like to follow me to d kitchen and help me out..i let him do all the simple things...He is too attached wth his turtle that He cant sleep wthout it......my lil and only boy....always makes us smile wth his natural way..like d daddy in fact...can be so clowny...lol

Leah....my big sister....my super smart lil girl and talk like an adult. She always impress ppl when she start opening her mouth...yay, me sendiri pun can terkilan onces awhile....things that they learn from TV and observing adult talking (so, watch out what comes out from your mouth). I have to be careful what I say and do cause she really likes to learn. I am proud of her..she knows how to write her name and knows all her siblings full name...thats my big sister. Leah can be so helpful and a reporter to me and daddy about her siblings...she will tell us what happens...I am proud tht she is a responsible sister and will protect them. My big sister controls the pc, laptop, iphone and TV at home.....must pandai bargain wth her...yay...I love my leah as she is..sweet and loving....

My children  are all growing up too fast......too fast that I might not catch up.....I always tell them them not to grow up so fast but pandai lar they jawab me...hmmmnnn. Anyhow, i know my kids have a very kind heart....a kind heart and very loving......I THANK GOD for the GREATEST GIFT ever...my children. Nothing more that can't top up what I have.......I LOVE THEM too MUCH...They are the reason that I M here....to care, to love and to provide them the best....xoxo

My Family

My Everything and My WORLD....

My Children especially and my Better Half....I Thank GOD for the PRECIOUS GIFT that I received and will LOVE them UNCONDITIONLY.

A copy Paste but worth reading

LET THIS TRUE STORY SERVE AS A WARNING




To the men : warn your loved ones!

To the women : remember this!



About a month ago there was a woman standing by the Mega Mall entrance passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might warn other women.



The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her car and discovered that she had a flat. She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat. A nice man dressed in business suit and carrying a briefcase walked up to her and said,



'I notice you're changing a flat tire. Would you like me to take care of it for you?'



The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.



The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her car, the man told her that he left his car around on the other side of the mall, and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car. She was a little surprised and asked him why his car was on the other side. He explained that he had met an old friend in the mall whom he hadn't seen for some time and they had a bite to eat and visited for a while; he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and now he was running late and his car was clear around on the other side of the mall.



The woman hated to tell him 'no' because he had just rescued her from having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy. Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk before shutting it and before he asked her for the ride to his car.



She told him that she'd be happy to drive him to his car, but she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy. She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in her car and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be. She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had happened; the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.



They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the police station. The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could return it to the man). What they found was rope, duct tape and knives.



When the police checked her 'flat' tire, there was nothing wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious what the man's motive was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out in advance.



The woman was blessed to have escaped harm. How much worse it would have been had she waited in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped into a car seat. Or if she'd gone against her judgment and given him a lift. I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know.



It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only; but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it on to them as well.



Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it.... better safe than sorry.





PLEASE BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY!

Happy Birthday To Us

Mummy Leah Sweet 29 (2/3) and my dearest Daughter Leah is 4 (3/3) years old

Happy Birthday to Us...

We THANK YOU LORD for another year to look forward to and many years to come...We are TRUELY BLESSED with all our WONDERFUL family and friends

Eat Right For Your Type

Hello dear Peeps..

Recently, I found this web that might be useful for other bloggers that want to lose weight. I read through this web after a young and sexy lady introduced it to me.

I meet this lady  in the gym. I was so amazed with her body figure and decided dengan tia malu nya went to ask her. Lucky me she was friendly and did'nt mind to share the information with me.

I did follow her advice and I got result. However, I did stop for awhile and soon after that..I start to gained weight again. Susah bah mau mantain when my hubby is around....Makan only.

Hubby is going to work soon, so I am going to start my diet again......I hope, I will lose weight again...Lol..
wanna have that eva Langoria body.....wahaaaahaaa......montok2....

Here is the website and don't forget to check it out....http://www.dadamo.com/

Lets lose those excess weight TOGETHER

House Renovation

OH GOSH!!!!!!! thats my exact word........

I did'nt know that renovating a house can be such a HEADACHE. Planning for the new positions, having disagreement with my so loving hubby and contractor, negotiating on the time frame and such.

However, my so loving Hubby let me have the final say ( yahoo, lucky me) and the contractor is my hubby's friend and my senior from school...Laaaalaaalaa..so, it made the work easier for me and Hubby.

Hubby keep on reminding me, don't go over board with the house details and please stick to the budget...as we won't be staying here forever. Its just for time being until we manage to raise the fund for our retirement house (maybe there I can go crazy with all the details but I want to be a small house)

So far, we had finalize and waiting for the interior design before they start destroying and pilling for the extention. The new position for all for 4 bedrooms, washroom, dining room, living room and my fav the kitchen.

I just can't wait to post some pic of the house in progress. Moving in by September and no more rent to pay at last.....Wah, a little by little and a step at a time....everything finally goes as planned...SWEET..

Till then......xoxoxo

Marriege

MARRIAGE




When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.



Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.



She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?



I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!



With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.



She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.



The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.



When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.



In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.

She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.



This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.



She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.



I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..



My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.



On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.



On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.



On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.



She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.



Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.



Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.



But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.



I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.



She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.



Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.



At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.



That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.



The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!



If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.



If you do, you just might save a marriage.





Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.





A CHRIST-CENTERED MARRIAGE IS A MARRIAGE THAT IS SURE TO LAST A LIFETIME.



Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Matthew 19:6

The Needy and the Greedy or The UN necesseries

Hey peeps.....

This is gonna be another long and boring entry...Lol...so be prepared whoever is reading this. This is also a repetative entry that I've been blogging about......wanna be debt free~~~~~dreaming for now.g

I like blog hoping and read other peoples adventures. Learn about places that others went to visit or so. I like looking at pictures too in FB....all the nice places to visit and adventure.....

Like many others, I love to travel if there is an opportunity but Un fortunately I don't have that time nor money to spend on...Lol. All I can do is dream but its not wrong right?

I would ask my hubby, can I go to KL and meet my best friend an maybe do a little shopping? My hubby will reply, yes you CAN B. I would smile in delight as I know i can go BUT the excitement  would only last for awhile because I will end up not wanting to go. Haaaahaa. I wouldl feel bad because I will leave the children and surely I will miss them so much. Apart from that, I am afraid that I will dissapoint my hubby even tho he gave me the green light. Lol. Hubby will ask, when your going to KL? I will go like...cancel...I don't feel like going and the thrill is no more there...then we would laugh. My hubby would know whats in my mind. However, he would be nice by getting my nice things in exchange even tho I don't ask for it....lucky me.

Actually, We have this  3 years plan ahead. We would love our loans for our kasigui house, our mamut villa and cars to be all paid off by end 2012. Apart from that, each our children would have 50K( the more the better I hope) in saving. It sound hard to achieve but if we really concerntrate on our vision, maybe we would eventually achieve it. The longest time would be end of 2013....Meaning, no travelling, less shopping and so on.

Hubby would always said to me, it would be great if everything are all paid off and we do not need to worry about debts anymore. All our children future are secured. After that, we can do anything that we have been dreaming  and maybe build our last small kg house ( or we would say our retirement house); where we can plant veges. I would laugh at that each time he brings it up...( I would imagine that moent and smile). When we come back from travelling, we do not need to worry about debts to pay off house loans and so. Lol. I would always smile when he tells me  of his plans for our future. My Hubby would always remind me....We are the needy one. We work and get money for the necessary one only for now...we do not need to be greedy. Being greedy will not take you no where after all. I think that is well said from my Hubby. Stepping on ground rather then flying off to cloud nine...Haaaahaaa.

So, I will not think of travelling and so on for now. I want to implement the dream that my Hubby sets for us. It is for our own good. After all, everything will go to our children. That is more important right? Children are the heart to our soul, wihout them...we would not be here where we are standing now.....

I am dreaming off a life where life will be lighter and free. A life where my family can enjoy rather then thinking of a 30 years loan to be paid ahead. Everything is worth to be sacrifice for the children.

Hubby too will celebrate our 10 years wedding anniversary that I would be looking forward to...Haaahaa. Hubby said it will be our DREAM wedding where we can renew our vows(that would be romantic) with very super close family and friends.

As for now, I will keep on doing what I like..looking at pictures and enjoy blog hopping. I would learn a lot from there. WHo knows, 5 years from now...I will be on smile travelling with my hubby and children...

Chiao from me.....xoxoxo

Happy February

Hello my dear friends...

How's everyone? I hope everyone is doing great. I hope everyone had a good month of January.

Its February now...and we know Valentines and Chinese New Year fall on the same day. It means a lot of eating, receiving gifts and ang paus for the singles...lol.

Nothing much from me...I just miss my blog...so much. Life have been good for me. Weheeeeee...
Oh, did I mention? I received early present from my hubby....heeeehee. I love it so much. Hubby said, kasi awal cause our 2 kids fall on the same month....so tia rasa when i get the kids gift..Leah on the 3/3 and Leevan 15/3 and mine on the 2/3.

Did you guys checked out the new furniture warehouse along jalan penampang? I cant rememeber so please spare me. I find the place is quite reasonable.

What more? Oh ya, one afternoon, I was checking on my Fb and found out Elda was pregnant pula so I congratulate  her...that evening, I went to Giant suerpmarket City Mall with Hubby and saw her there. We had a small chatt...Lol...What a considance kan......

We attended Jerome and Judith's wedding today with hubby. It was beautiful. The Bride blushing Gorgeous and the Groom is so cool...steady ko sana Jerome....

Stayed home most of the time now as my kids are not feeling well....Leevan on and off fever and Lana is having flu.

I guess thats it for today...Happy month of February to all.......and have a GREAT one.....

my 1st 2010 entry and my great 2009

Hey ya all Peeps....

Happy New Year to you all.....I hope its not too late. Its the 14th day of our year....so much looking forward and taking everyday one time at a time.....

Leah will turn 4 years, Leevan will turn 2 years and my baby Lana will turn  1....my precious babies are growing up so fast. in fact, too fast......i am literally trying my best not to miss any special moments in thier life. They are my miracles.....

Year 2010 had just started and there are so many events happening here and there too...busy attending and enjoying it.

However, 2009 had been a great year to me too.......let me jot down few highlights.

I gave birth to my baby Lana.....that one is a forever keep for me. My Leevan started talking...so sweet bah minbolotok.....went for holiday here and there locally. Moved to another rented house and the best was I got a house Villa in Mamut for my Christmas present from my hubby...xoxox Oh, I started excercising seriously but became so lazy in November and December 2009...haaahaa. too many makan2 bah..

Talking about resolution, not that many i've listed; knowing my condition...pregnant at that time, my situation won't allow me with an infact and toddler that needs their mummy so much...my goals are just to spend more time with them...be there for my babies. oh, I did excercise and lost some of those baby weight...lol.

I guess not much for my 2009 because my babies are still little. I'll wait them to be older so that I can bring them along for holidays later......once financially secured at that time....

Anyhow, still was a great year for me....and I hope 2010 will be a fabolous year ahead too ;p Kids are growing up fast and its going to be our 5th year wedding anniversary too...This year, I aim to lost all those baby weights and tone those mucles..heeeeehe, have more saving, hoping to move in our own house and have our 1st honeymoon at last.

till my next post.....love u all...

Thank You Lord...and Thank You Hubby..

HUbby dearie...

We Thank you so much for our Wonderful Gift for this Christmas..For the children, for me and all our nephews and niece.

Dear Lord

; and We Thank You Lord for everything...We Thank You that we are together and grateful for all the wonders in our lives. We Love you and Thank You Lord...

yours truely,

Your humble daughter..with love

Presents..present..pressies

Oh yes, christmas is just around the corner. I am so excited for it.....I just can't wait...

Talking about presents....finally..I am done with my christmas gifts for my children, nephews and niece. I only need to get 2 more pressies and thats it.

Here are some pics of my christmas tree...(gosh, I redecorate it again....) and all my hard work in wrapping those prensents. I love wrapping...heeeeheee...

Happy holidays ya all peeps...xoxoxo